Are We Letting Technology Raise Our Children? Here’s How to Take Back Control

In a world dominated by screens and notifications, are we unintentionally letting technology shape our children more than we are? The digital age brings opportunities, but it also poses challenges, especially when it comes to teaching respect, empathy, and responsibility.

So, how can we raise true gentlemen who navigate the modern world with grace and integrity?

Here’s how to take back control:

1. Create Tech-Free Zones and Times

Set clear boundaries for screen use, such as no phones at the dinner table or during family activities. These moments allow for meaningful conversations and quality time, helping children value real-world connections over virtual ones.

2. Teach Respectful Online Behavior

The internet can be a breeding ground for disrespect, but you can guide your children to rise above it. Teach them to think before they post, avoid online arguments, and spread kindness in their digital interactions. Gentlemen are gentlemen—both online and offline.

3. Emphasize the Power of Face-to-Face Interaction

Screens shouldn’t replace human connections. Encourage your children to practice looking people in the eye, speaking with confidence, and listening actively. Role-play real-life scenarios to help them build social skills that technology often undermines.

4. Be a Role Model

Children follow what they see. Model healthy tech habits by putting your phone down during family time and showing the importance of being present. Demonstrate respect and empathy in how you interact with others, whether in person or online.

Your actions will teach them more than rules ever can!

5. Use Technology for Growth, Not Just Entertainment

Help your children use technology as a tool for learning and creativity rather than a source of passive consumption. Introduce them to apps and platforms that encourage skills like problem-solving, teamwork, and curiosity.

Best regards,

Marius

(from @men_being_gentlemen)