Why Does Networking Always Feel So Awkward?

Discover the secrets to authentic connections that feel natural

Let’s face it: the thought of networking can make even the most confident among us feel a little uneasy. Awkward pauses, forced smiles, and the dreaded “What do I say next?”—we’ve all been there.

But what if networking didn’t have to mean making small talk with strangers?
What if it could feel... natural?

Here’s how:

  1. Start with what you have: Your strongest opportunities lie in reconnecting with dormant ties—old friends or colleagues you’ve lost touch with. They already know you, and their worlds might hold the key to your next big step.

  2. Ask for warm introductions: Friends of friends are your best gateway to new circles. Leverage mutual connections to meet the right people without the cold approach.

  3. Drop the “What do you do?”: Instead, ask about passions or hobbies. Deeper, non-work-related conversations foster stronger relationships.

Networking isn’t about collecting business cards—it’s about fostering genuine connections. Once you rethink it this way, it might even start to feel... fun.

Warm regards,
Marius from men_being_gentlemen